All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible. – T E Lawrence
It is always a good idea to stop assuming malice until there are sufficient proofs to begin such assumptions
It is always a good idea to think about how you would like to be treated before spitting venom on other people.
It is always a good idea to take time to understand both sides of the story before forming a firm opinion.